Myths of Attraction: The False Beliefs That Keep People Stuck

Takes the eight myths that circulate in the dating space and makes the case that a myth is more expensive than a bad habit: a bad habit costs the time it takes, a myth costs the years it takes to believe it. Each myth is partly true, which is what keeps it alive.

Gives the three clusters, the external-status, internal-ability, and effort-avoidance myths, and the single pattern behind all eight: every one claims the read is formed by something other than what the person actually produces. Includes the partial-true-keeping mistake and a next step: write the eight myths in a column and name the one most alive for you.